Happy Mother’s Day!
Isn’t it interesting that we need the excuse of a special day to make arrangements for something sweet and nourishing for our bodies and souls? Why are we so resistant to committing to a chunk of time each week for ourselves and do something we enjoy? Especially if there is a lot of stress in our every day living. When we have to make a doctors appointment we block out time. When we need a cavity filled we find time to do it. If we have to go to the bank, buy a house, run to our kids performance in school we make time.
But it seems society has us hardwired that we come last and that it is selfish to take time for ourselves, especially when the world is falling apart around us. However, have you heard of the saying “When Mama aint happy there aint nobody happy”? Yes, there is truth to that. After all, how can we help others and create a nourishing space for our family and be creative and productive at work if we are exhausted and drained? And what kind of example do we give our children?
- Close your eyes and take some deep breaths, right there at your desk.
- Take a short walk in the sunshine during lunch and regroup.
- Or enjoy a cup of coffee with a friend.